Parenting

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I have received quite a many questions on Parenting, specially after couple of recent news in India. I kept explaining every one on the the basics that they should follow on Parenting, which I am summarizing below for the benefit of others
Please ensure that you work on communicating with your child much much more, staying disconnected from electronic gadgets, as they do more harm to you and any of your relationships. I am not just speaking about when you must call him in with a problem like reduced marks or after you received a call from his teacher. I am talking about daily interactions where you share a smile, a good word, a laugh, a story, or a meal together. The main thing is that you put the time and energy in so that he knows that he matters in your life.
Talk to your child every day as much as possible.
Put down your Phones , turn off your laptop or TV when your child/ spouse (or you) return home, at mealtimes and story times, and when you pick your child up from school. Look at him and make eye contact while having a conversation.
Speak to your child in the tone and with the words that you wish he would use with others.
Express your love every day, no matter how tough the day.
I know that some days will bring unforeseen difficulties and that some children seem more challenging than others. But at least you will know in our heart that you have tried your best to help your children navigate the road of life successfully.
Please feel free to call me or write to me, in case you have any questions.
Happy Reading
Sujit

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